

The list could go on and on about ways to be a blessing in a practical way, but you know your Pastor's wife, so work on your list and check it twice! 4. If she is the Mother of small children, then why not offer babysitting services so that she and her Pastor/Husband can go out for the evening. Taking her out for coffee would be a great way to minister encouragement to her while enjoying those delicious bottomless cups of coffee with a donut or two to go with it. Small things are often as powerful as the big things because it shows someone took the time to think of a way to be a blessing. Who doesn't like an unexpected gift? Does your church have a Women's Ministry? Perhaps you can share with your leadership that March is Pastors Wife Appreciation Month and possibly the ladies can bless her one at a time. Pastor's Wife Superpower Coffee Cup Gift – Click to get one, or two, or more! Bless your Pastor's Wife with an unexpected gift. Just take time to listen, love and even if you can't do anything to “fix it,” then at least you can let her know you will be praying for her. She is often in a place where she hears so many of the needs of the congregation that people forget actually to ask her this question “so how are YOU doing?” When (and if) you ask that question, why not take a few moments to hear her out before making sure she knows you had that “same problem” and as a matter of fact, your situation was much more severe than hers.Ĭonnect with her without any strings attached. Some might see her listening ear as an opportunity to get to the Pastor's ear, so they begin to “share” with her just where he needs to focus more of his attention. Rest assured, this is most likely not the case.

Many people think that a Pastor's wife is so connected and loved by so many people who are surrounding her prior, or following a church service that she is “worn out” with so much attention. Pray that he will be a blessing to her as well. Pray that she can be the kind of support her Pastor/Husband needs her to be. You may never see what those prayers accomplish because many of God's answers to our prayers that are unseen! Pray for her encouragement and protection. Even if it's just a few sentences in your prayer time, be sure you pray for her!

Hopefully, this is an obvious place to start, but without a doubt, it is vital to lift her up in your prayers daily.
